 Mark knew his role as a Big meant making a difference in a child's life. But when tragedy struck the family he was matched with, his commitment went above and beyond, forging a powerful bond with two brothers forever connected by loss.
Mark was originally paired with Dallas, a vibrant young boy who quickly saw him as “like a real brother.” Their shared love of sports, family, and fun fueled their adventures, from dinners and outings to memories captured on iPhone videos. But their journey was cut short when Dallas unexpectedly passed away from gun violence in June 2023. Grief could have pushed Mark away, but he did the opposite. He knew Carter, Dallas’ younger brother, was also hurting. So, Mark reached out, offering not just support, but a chance to rebuild a connection they’d already begun. Officially matched in August 2023, their match journey began. In just five months, Mark has made a profound impact on Carter’s life. “He helps me get out of the house and just have fun,” says Carter, echoing his mom’s sentiments. Mark introduces him to new experiences, from Top Golf to rock climbing, reminding him to have fun despite the pain. They even share conversations and memories of Dallas, keeping his spirit alive. Mark, too, has found solace in their connection. “I see myself in Carter,” he shares, reflecting on his own loss of a brother to gun violence. “This is certainly not the way either of us wanted to be acquainted, but with this shared grief “I have learned that family does not have to be related to you by blood. I’ve also learned that being a Big Brother has given me a purpose that I never knew I needed, but am grateful to be a part of.”Together, they’re healing, laughing, and making new memories. Carter’s hidden musical talent shines through his beat-making, with Mark his biggest cheerleader. Their shared passion for music, sports, and family creates a unique language only they understand. This is more than just a match; it’s a testament to the power of human connection in the face of adversity. Mark and Carter’s story is a beacon of hope, reminding us that even in the darkest moments, kindness, brotherhood, and shared experiences can light the way forward.  Mia, a shy 16-year-old, wasn't sure what to expect when she first met her Big, Grace. But over the past 2.5 years, their match has blossomed into a beautiful friendship that has transformed Mia's life.
Before Grace, Mia struggled with anxiety and making friends. But Grace saw her Little’s potential and patiently supported her journey. “She’s been there for me every time I was super anxious,” Mia shares, grateful for the unwavering support Grace offered through presentations, friendships, and even bullying situations. This positive influence fueled Mia’s confidence. She blossomed into a leader, becoming one of the youngest BBBS Youth Ambassadors at 14! With her vision and leadership, Mia helped shape programs, empower other youth, and inspire them to use their voices. Grace, a teacher, instilled valuable lessons in Mia, nurturing her work ethic, mental health awareness, and confidence. This support extended beyond Mia, as Grace’s passion for children shines through her teaching and mentorship. Mia’s mother, Nintia, echoes the impact: “Grace is part of our family. We love how supportive she is.” She sees Grace as a role model, a source of new experiences, and a constant source of love and encouragement. Their story resonates far beyond their match. Carmen, their Match Support Specialist, observes, “Grace has been great at supporting Mia through personal and educational challenges.” Mia’s growth inspires others, and as Carmen adds, “Having them continue to be part of BBBS is an opportunity to pass on future knowledge and resources to other matches.” Mia and Grace’s incredible journey is a testament to the power of mentorship. Their story shines a light on the transformative impact of genuine connection, support, and shared growth. They are truly deserving of the “Match of the Year” title! Meet Casey, our 2022 Big Brother of the Year! Casey has been matched with his Little brother, Zaron, since 2018 and during that time they have become as bonded as family. Zaron’s mom says that Casey has been a huge blessing to Zaron, offering him support and encouragement in everything from school assignments to making healthier lifestyle choices. Casey is always there when Zaron needs him, happy to listen and give advice whenever needed, and frequently encourages him to try new things like camping, which has become one of their favorite shared activities. In addition to consistently providing Zaron with support, Casey also gives him plenty of space to make his own choices and voice his thoughts and opinions. This sharing of power has helped increase Zaron’s confidence in himself and his ability to make good choices, which is a vitally important part of any mentoring relationship. Casey is dedicated to the BBBS mission as well, frequently bringing Zaron to our events and outings and offering his assistance to our program whenever he can. These are just a few examples of why Casey is our latest Big Brother of the Year. Congratulations, Casey, and thank you for being a part of our village!
Meet our 2022 Big Sister of the Year, Brandy! Brandy is half of one of our fantastic school based matches and has been hanging out with her Little brother Jordan once a week whenever school is in session since early 2022. Brandy is always happily willing to run around and play with Jordan at school and take him around to new places throughout the community, and her presence in his life has helped Jordan focus on his school work and remain calm during stressful times. Brandy is also an amazing advocate for Big Brothers Big Sisters, talking to those around her about the program and how much she is loving it. Brandy also volunteered to help with Big Brothers Big Sisters’ Adopt A Family program and is involved in the organization that helps Big Brothers Big Sisters’ Zombie Zap. This dedication to both her Little and to the Big Brothers Big Sisters mission is why she is our 2022 Big Sister of the Year! Congratulations, Brandy, and thank you for being part of our village!
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